What is courage?

We see courage being practiced every day however, I question whether it is recognisable. More so, do we even know what courage is? Have we possibly skewed its definition in order to fulfil a cultural landscape which legitimises and accepts brute force, competition, productivity, individualism, and ‘dog eat dog’ practices as leading to success? While also, in some ways advertising that money will not make us happy. Ever present in bank adds, striving to connect with humanity. Strange. Is capitalism really the way forward? And is its maintenance being disguised as thoughtfulness?

So, what is courage? Fortune favours the brave they say. May our fortunes be perhaps lacking then, if our definition of courage lends itself to the suffering of others? As Dr Phil might say, “How’s that working for you?”. Thanks Dr Phil…hehe.

Surely if bravery were a virtuous asset, it would not include harmful outcomes. Am I brave if I beat the crap out of someone (metaphorically and literally speaking)? I would argue most definitely not. I propose it to be an act of cowardice. Not only have I neglected to explore intellectual, psychological, emotional and knowledge-based solutions with the victim, I have exercised an activity which threatens their life, ultimately threatening my life (paraphrased from the theory of community living). Silly right? If I were truly courageous, I would explore alternatives leading to the survival, health and joy of the human race. Why? Because this is where my fortune lies.

I have worked with children and in the mental health sector for over 20 years. I’ve seen a child stand up to perform in front of their peers who may have teased them. And as a result, encouraged other members of the class to perform. This is courage. I have watched people labelled as having a “personality disorder” stand in front of an audience and speak of their trauma. This is courage. I have heard of people setting up camp to defend their rights, only to be brutally removed. This is courage. I have seen people tell the truth with the expectancy of punishment. This is courage. I have many loved ones who choose self-awareness over conflict. This is courage.

So, in the midst of lockdown and isolation, might we consider some of the constructs which may inhibit evolution towards peace. While separation is necessary now, it is all too apparent how much the relationships in our lives indeed serve our survival. All war does is weaken our chances of success.

My own definition of courage would be:

Finding the strength within ourselves to heal our wounds, forgive, fight without harm for freedom, believe in a peaceful future and employ all our knowledge in the research of human survival, joy and love.

:) <3 xx